“A lot of older kids don’t like to stay in the shelters,” Carter told the New Pittsburgh Courier in an exclusive interview. Carter said the older teens find a lot of “shame” due to their situation, “but these young people, who may be couch surfing (outside the shelters) still face the same challenges as the people in the shelters, but it’s hard to reach them.”
Monet Spencer was one of those teens that, due to her mother’s untimely death, became homeless. She’s also one of the teens that, with the help of HCEF, the United Way, ACTION-Housing, and one determined mentor, turned a negative situation into quite the positive outcome.
“When my mom died (February 2016), the landlord said me and my twin brother could no longer stay at our apartment,” Spencer told the Courier. Roughly a month later and with just the two siblings living in the apartment, Spencer suffered a severe asthma attack that kept her in the hospital for four weeks. When she was well enough to leave the hospital, she had nowhere to go—until mentor Debra Smallwood, a graduation coordinator for the Neighborhood Learning Alliance at Brashear High School, took her in.
As the months passed, Smallwood assisted Spencer in finding an apartment. On Sept. 14, 2016, it became a reality—ACTION-Housing provided her with an apartment, and a continuation of hope. “It was very stressful for me, actually,” Spencer said of the ordeal. “I had moments where I wanted to give up, not do anything. But then the reality of what my mom went through…I said, ‘If I can’t take care of myself, what does that show, with everything my mom taught me?’”
Fast forward to June 2017, and Spencer is a proud Brashear High School graduate, and an incoming freshman at Carlow University. “By the grace of God, one of the nuns at Carlow heard my story, and said, ‘We’re going to pay for your housing for free for all four years,’” Spencer revealed. But another issue arose: How would Spencer pay for the tuition?
On July 20, that question was answered. HCEF presented Spencer, along with other teens, a scholarship award during a “graduation-style” event, labeled the Hope Through Learning awards ceremony, at the National Aviary. The scholarship allows Spencer to pay for her tuition and books for her first year at Carlow. “This really sealed the deal for me to go to college and not pay out of pocket for it,” Spencer said.
Carter said it’s his personal mission to see success stories like Spencer.
“She’s such a light and she describes herself as a flower that grew in concrete,” he said.
HCEF recently moved from its offices on Smallman Street in the Strip District to the aptly-named One Hope Square, 1901 Centre Ave., Suite 301. Carter, a commercial banker for nearly 20 years, had always participated in causes “with a greater purpose,” including being on the board of Holy Family Institute and, along with his wife, taking in a homeless woman for three months. He always saw himself as a leader and motivator, so taking the reins at HCEF 11 months ago was a smooth transition.
“People don’t need to be ashamed about homelessness,” Carter said. “People experiencing homelessness are just like us, they like social media, they have hopes and dreams, they like to laugh and have fun. People think of a homeless person as some vagrant who’s drug-addicted on the street. But people are in the shelters for different reasons—domestic violence, fractured relationships, mental health issues—but it’s the same things that go with poverty, so it’s still people affected by poverty, only they’ve lost their home in the process. I like to humanize them, always trying to create the sense of hope.”
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